No kids? Never been married?
How does a woman with no kids and who has never been married become a Judge in Family Court???!!!
From some of the things that she wrote in the order, it is clear that she has no insight into motherhood, marriage or an intimate partner relationship.
Any parent knows that parenting requires on-the-job training. Just like, any married person knows that marriage is not a fairy tale and takes work and dedication even under the best circumstances.
Parenthood is hard. Anyone who says it is easy...well, isn't doing it right.
Parents learn from experience and trial-and-error. We can read books and research, many which give conflicting information, but at the end of the day it is not a one-size fits all method or process. Each child, each experience, each day we as parents must roll with the punches and be ready for the unexpected.
This judge is trying to use theory to make decisions upon which she has no practical experience.
This is very dangerous.
A Mother Would Know Better than to rip happy, well-adjusted children from their mother who has been their primary caregiver since conception and send them to a father who was a weekend dad at best.
Every Child Deserves Better Than a Judge With No Parenting Experience